I guess when you're young,
you just believe there'll be many people
with whom you'll connect with.
Later in life, you realize it only happens a few times.
年轻的时候你以为会和许多人心灵相通,
但后来你发现,
这样的事情一辈子只会发生那么几次。
Memory is a wonderful thing
if you don't have to deal with the past.
如果你不必纠缠过去,
那么回忆是一件美好的事情。
Life's hard. It's supposed to be.
If we didn't suffer,
we'd never learn anything.
生活是艰辛的,它本该这样。
如果我们不遭受痛苦,
我们就永远也学不到任何东西。
It's okay to want things,
as long as you aren't pissed off if you don't get them.
欲望本身不是坏事,
只要你不要太在意得失就好。
People just have an affair, or even entire relationships…
they break up and they forget.
They move on like they would have changed brand of cereals.
人们只是随意留情,甚至即使是认真的感情,
人们也会分手,然后忘记。
就像换另一牌子的麦片一样简单。
There’ll be many people you’ll connect with.
Later in life, you realize it only happens a few times.
你会认识很多人,
但后来你才会发现,能交流的人其实很少。
In the moment,
I remember thinking it didn’t much matter, the who of it all.
I mean, that nobody is going to be everything to you…
and that it’s just the action of committing yourself…
You know, meeting your responsibilities, that matters.
我记得在那个时候,
我并不觉得和“谁”结婚这个问题很重要。
一个人并不是你生命的全部,
到头来只是一种负责的表现,
负担起你的责任,这才是最重要的。
In a way, I put all my romanticism into that one night….
and I was never able to feel all this again.
Like,somehow this night took things away from me…
and I expressed them to you and you took them with you.
It made me feel cold, like love wasn’t for me.
从某种意义上来说,我把我所有的浪漫都在一夜之间消耗光了,
而我将永远不可能再有那种感觉了。
就好像,那一夜不知道怎么引发了我的全部感情,
而我把这些感情都向你倾诉出来,而你却把它们从我身边带走了。
这让我感到孤独。好像爱情再也不属于我一样。
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